😘Sinners are not those who succumb to temptation, but those who try to seduce others.

You know, after years of observation, I have come to an interesting conclusion. Sinners are not those who succumb to temptation, especially female charms. No, sinners are those who try to seduce and send all sorts of things, expecting some kind of reaction. Funny, isn't it? Especially when you realize that seduction is an art form, not just throwing out a few phrases or pictures.😮

I'm not going to play the moralizer here, even though I grew up in a Catholic family and many principles are deeply ingrained in my soul. Respect has always been important to me — for myself and for others. And when a girl sends something clearly inappropriate, I immediately remember the words from 1 Corinthians 8:9: “Be careful that your freedom does not become a stumbling block.” And it doesn't matter who you are — a man or a woman. Seducing, imposing yourself, expecting an immediate response — it's like putting another person on display, depriving them of their will and freedom of choice.

💛I often feel that those who send such messages do not understand that on the other side of the screen there is a living person with feelings, doubts, and boundaries. Not just a body for pleasure or a game. And sometimes — a soul that can be hurt, offended, or even closed off forever.

I'm not saying that all men and women are like that. And in general, I don't want to generalize. There are many wonderful, sincere, respectful interlocutors who know how to listen and feel. They don't rush — they live in the moment, enjoy dialogue, not just the visual component. You want to communicate and meet with such people without fear that at any moment you will be “thrown away” like useless trash.

Sometimes I catch myself thinking: who am I to them? Just a goal? Just another “picture” in the gallery? But deep down, I know that we are all much more than our appearance. And not only our appearance, but also our thoughts, fears, dreams, and wounds.

Faith has always taught me to forgive and not judge, but also to preserve my honor and dignity. “God loves the sinner but hates the sin” — and this perfectly reflects the attitude towards people who try to seduce. It is important to remember that everyone has their own struggles, and often these “failed” messages are simply loneliness or misunderstanding, not malicious intent.

But at the same time, why not be a little wiser? Why not show respect for another person, their time, and their feelings? Why not start with a real conversation instead of cheap tricks, with an interest in the person, not their outer shell? After all, true beauty and attractiveness lie in sincerity, not in a simple desire to provoke a reaction. 💛

If you think about it, temptation is always a game, and in this game, everyone makes their own choices. But a sinner is someone who consciously plays with other people's feelings, manipulates them, tries to provoke emotions and reactions, without respecting the other person. Unfortunately, such people often do not realize that in the end, they themselves lose human warmth and true closeness.

I believe that there is something good and bright in every person that can shine if given a chance. Sometimes it is enough to simply be honest and open, rather than trying to seduce through screens and texts. This is much deeper than just external attractiveness.

Sorry for writing so much, maybe you are tired of reading?
I am also a woman of a certain age, and I would very much like understanding and love...
💛💛💛I'll be waiting for you in the chat... Yours, Larisa.💛💛💛