But let's think about it: how often is normal? And is there such a thing as an "overdose of politeness"?
"Thank you" is not just a word
It works as a small gift - warm, unobtrusive, but leaving a mark.
You say it - and the person is pleased. Even if it is a cashier in a store who is already tired of people in the morning.
Fact:
People who often say "thank you" are perceived as friendly, well-mannered and even... nicer! It's true, it has been tested by psychologists (and grandmothers on a bench near the entrance).
Is it okay to say “thank you” too often?
Well… yes. Especially if it turns into a nervous tic:
– Thank you.
– You’re welcome.
– Thank you for saying “please”!
– Um… are you okay?
Advice: don’t turn “thank you” into a filler word. The meaning is lost when we don’t feel it. It’s better to say one sincerely than ten automatically.
And when exactly should you say “thank you”?
When someone helps you, even in small ways.
When someone listens to you without yawning.
When you’ve been praised (even if you think you deserve more).
When your loved one makes you coffee. Not coffee – also thank you.
When the minibus driver waited for you at the bus stop (yes, that’s almost a miracle).
And a little flirting for starters:
You can say “thank you” with a spark. For example:
– Thank you… Are you always this attentive?
– Thank you... and not just for the compliment, but for having such a beautiful voice.
Saying “thank you” is not only politeness, but also a way to remind the world that you notice the good. And if you do it with a smile, consider that you have already done a small good deed today.
So…
Thank you for reading to the end!