Men, let's be honest. We women are ready to understand a lot. We even love it when you are absurdly cute in some way. But when you go on a first date in a classic suit... and white running sneakers... that's not "style", that's a challenge to our patience 😬
No, we are not against convenience. We ourselves sometimes choose sneakers to go with a dress 👗👟 But a date is not about “comfort”, it’s about the impression ✨And if you wear a suit, we expect that you thought through the whole look, and didn’t just jump out of a minibus between the office and the gym 🚶‍♂️💼🏃‍♂️
We want to feel that this evening is important to you, as it is to us 💫 That you tried. You know, we’re not asking for miracles. We don’t need brands, tailored jackets, and $500 shoes 💸 We just want to see that you’re included in the process, that you’re real on this date, and not on autopilot 🤖
And sneakers with a suit are like saying: I kind of came, but we’ll see how it goes 🤷‍♂️And we don’t want “how it goes”. We want reciprocity, interest, a spark — and shoes that won’t tell you that you played basketball yesterday 🏀👞
Just take note: a date is a small holiday 🎉We want to feel desired, and not like we came to have lunch with a colleague in a cafeteria 🥲
So a tick in your head: suit + shoes ✅And sneakers… let them wait for a Sunday walk 🚶‍♂️🌳
With love
Tanya🔥