For a long time, I didn’t believe it was possible to love again after a divorce. 🌿
To love not out of habit, not from loneliness, not because it’s “the right thing to do”… but for real.
At first, you simply learn to live again. In silence.
No accusations, no arguments, no false expectations.
You put your son to bed - and then it’s just you. Alone.

And then comes a moment when loneliness no longer feels cozy.
You start to crave sharing - not just chores and responsibilities, but your soul.

I don’t go on dates just to check a box.
I don’t want to be “convenient” again - I want to be myself.
Sometimes, it feels like we become invisible with age.
But that’s not true.
Our light just becomes softer, warmer… and more genuine.

Sometimes, men write to me who’ve also been through a lot.
They value the simple things: honesty, a sense of humor, the ability to truly listen.
And I realize - maybe not everything is lost.
Second chances do exist.
They’re just not as loud as the first ones.
They’re quiet - but no less important.

Maybe you’re reading these words now… and you also want to try again? 😊
Then know this: you’re not alone.
And who knows - maybe your second chance is already on its way to you. ❤️