I easily remember my youth, the days when I had time to play silence and resentment, to pretend I felt nothing. It was a bright time, when the grass seemed brighter and life seemed longer.

But now? Every year, every day even, feels more precious. Time is not something I want to waste on people who aren't ready. Not for love, not for connection, not even for honesty.

What hurts most is the quiet space where a connection should've bloomed, but instead... nothing. No reply. No answer. No effort. Just me, left with my thoughts, wondering why sincerity scares so many people.

You shouldn't be afraid to try and get rejected, because that's sincerity. Because you openly say you don't want to keep a man on a short leash and let him move on.

So why are there still so many men who flirt and disappear? Who like your photo but avoid your question? Who whisper sweet things but vanish before you can reply?

Is this the reality that social media and increased choice has brought about? Everyone thinks they can find that perfect partner.

But maybe you should look closer, at those who are already trying to reach out to you and be honest with you and with themselves.
And, you know, that's not advice. It's a direct call to action.

Whether you're young or old, take the first step. Life really is a lot shorter than it seems, try not to miss it👀

Svetlana💋🌹