Today I want to talk about special topic. I know that all we are not
small kids, who topic of sex is open for us- and it is also a way to
enjoy life.
1. It Might Be Your Only Chance
When I was in college, I had a crazy fire burning in my loins for a
guy that I worked with on my college newspaper. I just had to
experience some sort of physical intimacy with him, consequences
(heartbreak, post-coital awkwardness, etc.) be damned. When the
opportunity presented itself — in the form of me getting a little
tipsy and pushing him up against a brick wall in order to kiss him — I
seized it. I knew full well that my brazen behavior could cost me any
further opportunities with him, but I also knew those opportunities
were hardly guaranteed. This one time was. So. Worth. It. But I had to
be OK with it maybe not being worth it in the first place.
2. To Weed Out The Sexists
Some say that a guy won’t take a woman “seriously” if she gives up the
cookies on the first date. Guess what? I don’t take guys like this
seriously because they are gross, sexist hypocrites who will
eventually reveal themselves as such whether you sleep with them on
the first date or the 50th — better to find out early, right? Time is
a-wastin’!
3. To Get Laid, Duh
Guess what? Women like to have sex too. And sometimes, shocker, we
don’t spend hours and hours obsessing over
OMG-what-might-happen-if-we-do-it — sometimes we’re … how do I put
this … what’s the word? Oh yeah. Horny.
4. Test Your Sexual Chemistry
And by that I really mean “find out if you’re compatible in bed.” You
can spark all you want with someone, but, when push comes to shove, if
they can’t get you aroused, you’re in trouble. I really don’t see the
point in delaying that inevitable discovery. Do archaeologists spot,
like, a dinosaur bone and then say, “You know, I don’t think we should
dig it up and identify whether it’s a triceratops or a stegosaurus for
another three weeks”? No. They don’t. Don’t try and find flaws with
this argument. It’s completely irrefutable.
5. Once Is Enough
I have this theory that when men have little boy babies, they sneak
into their rooms at night while mom is sleeping and whisper in their
tiny, impressionable ears, “When a woman has sex with you, she will
always want to come back for more.” Movies like “Fatal Attraction”
only reinforce this stereotype that once a woman meets a penis she has
to make it her best friend. Seriously, sometimes we’re totally fine
and cool with only having sex with someone once. Therefore,
fornicating on the first date is just efficient day planner
management.
Ultimately, only you can decide for yourself if sleeping with a guy on
a first date is a good idea for you and what you want from him after
the sex is over. Oh, and don’t be stupid. Use a condom. STDs and
accidental pregnancies take the fun out of brunch the next morning.
Enjoy life and creat happyness...
Diana