Sometimes it seems that many men pass the peak of their lives by 33 - and that's it. Then - a shadow of their former greatness, memories of what they were like ... and the expectation that a woman will become their sponsor, savior, nanny, psychotherapist, muse and part-time cook. 🍲🛏️🧹
Let's not go into legends. Women get tired too. They also work. They also make choices. We are not looking for immortal heroes and do not expect the perfect prince on horseback. 🐴 But falling into the role of "mommy" in front of a living adult man - no thanks, no thanks. 🚫
We want a person next to us who is alive, switched on, with fire, and not with eternal fatigue and phrases like "all women are the same". We are not the same. It's just that too many have gotten used to saving - instead of being equal. 🔥
So, the ideal man is not a myth. He is not the one who "understood everything at 33, and now lives in the archives of his youth." And not the one who is looking for someone to "lay out" all the accumulated despair. 🙃
He is simply alive. He is in the present. He does not give up and does not make a woman the source of his energy. ⚡
And we? We are for those who are near - and not on your back. And not under your feet. 💪
It's that simple. ❤️
Alena🌹