When it all starts suddenly

You were not going to this cafe. Or almost canceled the meeting. And suddenly - acquaintance, light, laid -back. As if not for the first time you say, but just continue the dialogue, which was started somewhere for a long time. Such moments seem almost unrealistic. But it is in them that it is difficult to explain with the words: recognition. As if this person was already part of your life - you just finally met.

Why is the accident acting like that?

The paradox is that the less we expect, the more we feel. When the brain does not configure in advance on the “scenario of relationships”, feelings come honestly, without masks and expectations. We are not trying to please - we just eat. And it is in this spontaneity that real chemistry is revealed. Without pressure. Without plans. Without "what's next?"

What gives one evening?

He does not always lead to a relationship-but often opens up something important. In yourself. In the world. Sometimes - hope. Sometimes - inspiration. Sometimes - the feeling that you are alive again. One evening can swing a heart that has long been silent. And even if you are never seen again, the feeling of this meeting will remain like the warmth that reminded: feelings are still possible.

And if this is the beginning?

It happens that a random evening is becoming the first frame of a real story. Then there will be correspondence, calls, meetings. And everything will begin to take shape. Not according to plan, but by a hunch. The main thing is not to be scared. Do not try to rationalize everything. Because love rarely comes on schedule. But when she comes, she is immediately recognizable.

Accident is not always random. Sometimes one evening is able to deploy life in the other direction. We do not know what will happen next - but this is what makes the feelings alive. And if suddenly someone appeared “suddenly”-do not rush to analyze everything. Perhaps it was this person - the very case, for which it was worth waiting.