We women have been silent for a long time. But it's time to admit it out loud: many of us are tired of "warming up a kettle" that isn't going to whistle 😒. What does that mean? It means investing attention, time, interest, warmth... in a man who doesn't give feedback. No "yes" or "no." No step forward, no honest "I don't want to." Only silence, uncertainty, and eternal anticipation of when he will finally "boil" and show himself 🔄.
But men, we are adults. We no longer want to play guessing games 🎭: are you interested or were you just bored in the evening. We don't want to guess the silence, read between the lines, and feed on hopes.
Women want real men. Those who turn on, and don't blink online for weeks 🕒. Those who respond with words, and not three hearts ❤️❤️❤️. Those who make it clear: yes, you are interesting, let's continue. And don't hang in the status "to think about it".
The world has become too noisy to wait for someone to "mature" 📵. No one is asking for a jump to the registry office - it's just about an honest reaction. If something touched you - respond. If it didn't touch you - also say so. Silence is also an answer, but a weak one and unworthy of an adult man.
So... men, be like teapots with a soul 🫖. If it boils inside - don't be afraid to "whistle". Let them know that you are alive. And if you are not ready - don't ask to be waited for at the stove. Each stove has its own temperature of patience 🌡. And one day the kettle is simply sent to the trash.
With love, but without illusions - from all the women who no longer want to warm the silence. 💋
Anna❤️