I have noticed more than once that it is easier to pretend that everything is under control than to admit that it is difficult. But when a man is really ready to open up and say: “I need support” - this, in my opinion, is a very strong and courageous step. Because there is honesty and trust in it. And this is valuable.
I think that in life it often happens that we try to be heroes alone. But this is an outdated idea. True strength is when a person understands his boundaries and is not afraid to show them. This is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of maturity.
And honestly, I really respect those men who are not afraid to be vulnerable. Who can admit that they need support - whether at work, in a relationship, or just in life. It's like saying: “I am human, and sometimes I need help.” And that makes the relationship real.
When I get to be with such a person - where I can just be myself, without pretending - it's a special feeling. Because that's what opens the way to real mutual understanding and closeness.
So if you're somewhere now thinking that asking for help is difficult or unmanly, know that sometimes this is the most manly thing you can do.
Mwah)