Relationships are not just a matter of “luck” or “bad luck.”
It's not a coincidence of the stars.
And it's not even about “sparks” from the first meeting.
It is the conscious work of two people who have chosen to be together.
We often think that if it's “the one,” everything will be easy.
But the truth is that even true love requires effort.
The theory of relationships is simple:
⚖️ You + Me = Us.
But this equation only works if both people participate.
🧩 A relationship is:
— not when you are looking for the perfect one
but when you learn to accept the real one
— not when “everything is smooth”
but when you hold hands even in a storm
— not when a person saves you from loneliness
but when they are close to your complete, whole personality
Love is an emotion.
And relationships are a system.
There are boundaries, balance, communication, respect.
Not just romance, but also support, compromise, common goals.
And if you think that feelings are everything...
they're not.
Feelings are not enough.
You need to be able to talk, listen, and compromise.
You need to choose each other again, every day.
💬 Relationship theory is not a formula, but a living process:
Sometimes you get upset.
Sometimes you are silent.
Sometimes you think everything is falling apart.
But then... you hug each other. You look into each other's eyes.
And suddenly — you remember why you are together.
That's the essence.
Not perfection. But intention.
Not 24/7 passion. But the ability to be there when things get tough.
And yes, relationships can be built.
But only if both people really want to.
And if they love each other — not only with their hearts,
but also with their minds, actions, and respect.