Resentment for inattention. Irritation due to delay. Roughly abandoned phrase. Forgotten date. Sarcasm instead of support. All these moments may seem insignificant-especially if you do not want to spoil the mood "because of nonsense." But feelings do not know how to "write off for the weather." They just fold in a piggy bank. And over time they become a load that is more difficult to carry.

Each “swallowed” moment is a brick in the wall. The one that grows between two people. And even if everything is calm outwardly, inside there is no longer the lightness with which before it was possible to simply hug, joke, talk. Because behind this - accumulated. Words do not sound sincere. Touching becomes formal. And sometimes they just disappear.

When irritation, fatigue, disappointment accumulate - feelings gradually fade. Not because there is no more love. And because under this weight she simply does not have air. A person does not care how the evening will pass, what a partner will think, what he will say. Indifference is not an instant state. It often comes after a long silence of the little things.

What to do with it?

Speak. Do not save. Learning to discuss even trifles is calm, without accusations, but honestly. For example: “I was sad when you forgot about our conversation” instead of “you never listen to me.” It is important not to wait until the inner counter of the “insults” reaches a critical point. Relations do not fall apart in a day. But if you do not notice that it crumbles a little bit-one day it will be too late.

Love lives in details. In the little things. And destruction - also begins with them. But this means that you can save the relationship - step by step, paying attention to what used to seem unimportant. After all, it is from these, at first glance, not only the daily daily routine, but also its fate, is built.