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Fwhen everything in life is too right, i get bored.
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Everything is perfectly smooth, no surprises, no unpredictable turns, and it seems that even the air around is too neatly packed.

It seems like nothing is wrong - everything is arranged, scheduled, plans are working, people around are fine. But this ideal picture begins to weigh on you. Boredom - it is not loud, it is quiet and viscous. As if you are waiting for something, but you don't know what exactly.

Probably, everyone is familiar with this feeling, when there is no spark in life that makes the heart beat faster. There are no unexpected situations that throw you off track and give you a reason to smile or even get a little nervous.

Boredom from correctness - it is special. Because there is no irritation or desire to run away somewhere. Everything just seems... too smooth. Too right to be real. And then you begin to understand that it is this small chaos, this share of confusion and unpredictability that makes life alive.

It seems to me that when everything goes according to schedule and without failures, space for real emotions begins to be lost. Even joy becomes predictable, because you know that it will definitely be there, and anxiety and excitement are not needed at all. And at this moment you understand that boredom is a signal.

It is as if the body says: "Enough, give me a little real, give me something real and imperfect."

Of course, it can be difficult to admit this, because correctness is supposedly a goal that everyone strives for. But sometimes I catch myself thinking that in chaos, in spontaneity and in those moments that cannot be planned, there is real magic.

When everything is too good, you begin to miss simple little things: a sudden smile from a stranger, a funny story that ruins plans, a small misunderstanding after which you want to laugh until you cry.

After all, these moments are the most alive. They remind us that life is not a straight line, but rather an unpredictable path along which we walk.

So, perhaps, boredom is not an enemy, but a sign. A sign that it is time to let in a little more of the present, even if imperfect. Because perfection sometimes kills the most interesting part of life.

And how are you? Do you ever have the feeling that everything is too smooth and predictable? And what do you do to bring back at least a little of that spark that will not let boredom settle in?

This is the simple truth that I wanted to share today. 😊

Ira

 

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