I just want to be with someone who is not difficult.

Not because I'm tired - although yes, too. But because at some point I realized: relationships that need to be constantly "built", "worked on", "maintained" - this is no longer about love, but about management 😅 And I no longer have the mental budget for this.

I've heard so often: "You must be interesting. A woman must inspire. Must be easy, but with character. Self-sufficient, but not cold. Modest, but with fire. And don't forget about beautiful underwear, delicacy, a sense of humor, and in general - develop yourself!" 😂

It seems that they simply stopped loving me the way I am. And me too.

I don't want to be a project. I want to be myself. With all my "not in the mood", with my imperfect mood, with my lazy days, with coffee in bed not for you, but for MYSELF ☕️💁‍♀️ And if you're nearby - great. If it makes you feel better, warmer, calmer - even better.

But I don't want to jump above my head for someone's expectations anymore. I just want to be - with someone who's OK with it.

Have you noticed how rarely it is truly EASY now? So that you don't have to worry, analyze, or keep a straight face. Just sit down, be silent, and feel understood.

I don't want a relationship in which you have to "be the best". I want a relationship in which I can be myself. Without contests and without castings. Without the phrase: "You're too..." or "You could use a little..."

I want a man next to me with whom you don't have to try to deserve. Or you can just share a day. A sandwich. A series. A dream. A smile 🙂

And so that there is no feeling that I am at an interview.

I no longer expect someone to change my life. I already have it. I am in it. And I am good in it. It is just that there may be someone nearby with whom it will be a little more comfortable.

Just a warm "I am" instead of "I need you."

That's how it is. I don't know if I explained it clearly, but I hope so.

And with whom was it really easy for you?.. Write 💬

Masha