Being a "muse" is a trendy term. Men love to dream of a woman who is a source of inspiration: mysterious, beautiful, always there and will always support... But let's be honest: a "muse" is work. Hard and often free 😏
A muse should be able to be perfect. Listen to endless stories, admire even the most dubious "genius" 🙄, console when everything went wrong, tolerate mood swings, inspire at any moment. A smile 24/7 😊, an interest in his hobbies 🎨, understanding his fears and weaknesses. No fatigue, bad mood, your own problems - after all, you are a "muse" 🧘‍♀️.
And do you know what the answer is? Eternal "thank you" and dinner at most 🍝. You work as a psychologist, stylist, fan, nanny, editor — for food. No days off or vacations 🕰️.
I am not a muse. I am a person 💁‍♀️. I have my own goals, affairs, plans and weaknesses. I am not a decoration for someone else's life and not an infallible source of inspiration on demand.
If a man is waiting for a "mother-muse" let him look. But let him know: modern women know how to inspire, but not on an empty stomach and not to their own detriment 😎. "Muse" is no longer a free position.
Tanya😍