How many times have you caught yourself thinking, well, here we go again, this heart-to-heart talk? I wanted to relax, but she pestered me with questions and said everything again, and you feel accused, although you did nothing wrong.
Men often feel pressured by the expectation of deep communication. And not because they are cold or indifferent. It's just that most of them are used to showing care through actions, not words.
But the problem arises when a woman needs an emotional connection, and he doesn't know how to give it
There are several alternatives that I hope will be useful
Listen silently. Don't interrupt, don't correct, just be there. Sometimes this works better than any words.
Show that you remembered. And show concern for what is important to her
Hug. Physical intimacy often does what words cannot.
Call things by their names. Tell me honestly, it is hard for me to talk about feelings, but you are important to me. I am looking for my own way to be with you.

The main thing is not to pretend. A woman will rather accept your sincere restraint than false depth.
And maybe she herself will learn to speak more simply.

And what do you think, is it possible to love without having a heart-to-heart talk?
Yours Marina