Especially when there was only one desire spinning in your head — and it seemed that if you don’t get it now, you’ll lose some part of yourself. But life has taught me to look at these moments differently.
Sometimes God just doesn’t give you what you want. Not because He doesn’t love you or forgets, but because He’s preparing something much cooler. It’s as if your dreams are a warm-up for the real gift that lies a little further, around the corner. But you can’t see it because you’re too focused on what you want right here and now.
You know, as if everything around you is whispering to you: “Wait, it’s not time yet.” And at first it makes you angry, upsets you, you want to break down, do something thoughtless. I myself have often felt in such moments that everything is going wrong, that I’m being ignored. But then comes the realization - what if this pause is needed so that there will be more joy later? Not just to receive, but to understand how important it is.
It's funny, but I began to notice that sometimes it is after such delays that opportunities appear that I had never even dreamed of before. You want one thing, but you get something completely different - and it turns out to be a hundred times better. And then you think - maybe I didn't know what I really wanted? Maybe what you wanted is just part of the plan, and real life is what is yet to come.
I think there is a special meaning in this. When you learn to wait, accept pauses and not rush into everything at once, the ability to notice real magic appears. It's like with a gift - it's not immediately interesting until you unwrap it. And here comes the most important thing - the belief that the best is already in the works.
And even if now you feel lonely, as I sometimes do, this is also part of this path. Maybe it is this loneliness that teaches us to appreciate what is really worth waiting for. This is not a time for despair, but for preparing ourselves for what will bring real joy.
I wonder how you are with this? Were there moments when you wanted to give up everything because it seemed that your dreams were not coming true? And then suddenly everything changed, and you realized that it was not a loss, but an accumulation of strength for something important?
I think the main thing is not to stop believing, even if sometimes it seems that everything is going wrong. After all, perhaps this path is not a mistake, but the most correct way to get what you really need. And even if it sounds trite, but sometimes patience is the coolest thing we can give ourselves.
May you always have a little patience and a little trust in what is happening. Because it is when we let go of control that life shows its most unexpected and cool sides. ✨
Do you think it's hard to learn to wait and believe in the best when everything around us demands quick answers and instant decisions? I think this is a very important question for each of us.
This is my little thought for today, I hope it will make you smile a little and think. Because that's where all the magic is - in those little moments when we accept what is and believe in what will be. 😊
Masha