Not because I have to, but because it would be a real desire. Can you imagine? You're sitting in a room, and at one moment you realize - here he is, the one with whom you can disconnect from all this digital madness and just be.
This is not about getting distracted or hiding from the world. This is about choosing this moment and this closeness. So that you don't want to scroll through social networks, watch the news. But just turn off your phone and forget about it. Because everything you need is already here - next to you. As if reality itself has become more important than any virtual picture.
I often catch myself thinking that modern relationships sometimes turn into a constant presence online - correspondence. But what if there is a person with whom you don't need all this? With whom you can just be silent - and this is the best communication. No need to prove, explain, pretend. Just be.
I don't know how to describe it, but it seems to me that this is the level when you don't need confirmation, approval. When it's so interesting and comfortable next to you that you don't want to search for anything on the Internet. You just want to look at the person, listen, laugh, talk about trifles or serious things. This feeling when you don't want to run to your phone, because here, in the present, everything is already there.
This is probably some kind of rarity. To be next to someone and feel that this person is your real support, your comfort, your silence and at the same time the most real thrill. Not for the sake of some show or game, but because you want their presence to replace this entire virtual world with its noise and bustle.
I think that such a feeling - it does not come right away. You can't buy it or find it in trends. You need to feel it yourself, choose it and not let go. Because when such a person is nearby, life becomes simpler and brighter at the same time. And you don't need to search for something in your phone to feel alive.
I think it's like turning off the lights in the room and lighting a candle. It's not bright or loud, but it gives off warmth and light that can't be compared to any screen. This person is like this candle. He doesn't shout about himself, doesn't demand constant attention, but without him it becomes dark and empty.
I wonder, have you ever experienced this? To have a person nearby for whom you can disconnect from everything and just enjoy the moment? To not want to run to the phone or turn on the computer, but just want to be. Without words, without explanations, without unnecessary movements. Just be.
This is what I feel now - I want such a simple, but very rare closeness. When you don't need phones, social networks and all this digital noise. Only real emotions and real people nearby.
Perhaps this is real magic - when there is a person nearby with whom you can turn off the Internet and just live.
Do you have someone with whom you can just be? 😊
Mwah)