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Everyone around is chasing the ideal - the ideal appearance, the ideal character, the ideal actions.
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And I also catch myself doing this - comparing, analyzing, finding fault. But at some point the thought comes: what if all this pursuit is just an illusion? 🤔

Probably, real magic is not in finding the "ideal" person. Because the ideal is often just an empty shell. Someone who does not know how to make mistakes, does not know how to be themselves for real. But imperfection... that's what creates the spark. 🔥

Sometimes someone suddenly does something funny, absurd or just clumsy, and in this moment there is warmth, comfort, a sense of the present. As if behind this "flaw" there is something human and real, something that makes you smile and want to stay close. 😊

And it seems to me that learning to see this beauty in imperfection is a real art. Not to close your eyes to mistakes and weaknesses, but to love them, accept them and even find in them what makes a person unique. After all, it is these little things that make relationships alive, real. Not licked to a shine, but with spots, scratches and warmth. 💫

I know that it is not always easy. Sometimes you just want the ideal, so as not to bother. But, perhaps, then there is no real feeling. Because the present is always a little mess, a little chaos, a lot of laughter and shared imperfections. 🤪

And if you think about it, then maybe you shouldn't look so hard for someone who will be flawless. Maybe it is better to open up to those who know how to be real - with all the oddities, shortcomings and funny habits. After all, this is the real miracle. ✨

Do you ever have a moment when someone's little oddity or mistake makes you smile and come closer? Will you share? It seems to me that these little things are where real life lies.

Mwah)

 

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