Where you don't have to play, be interesting, keep the intrigue and hide your mood behind "everything is ok" 🙃

You just are. He just is. And you feel good. That's it.

But for some reason, every time I'm like this - real, warm, open - it scares someone. As if peace and comfort are some kind of suspicious trap. Too simple, too honest, too... understandable 🤷‍♀️

Everyone says they're tired of games. That they want "honest relationships." And when something real appears, they turn around and leave. Or remain silent. Or start acting as if they "need time to think." But I don't insist on anything. I was just there. For real.

Maybe everything has really changed? Maybe now intimacy is a marathon of checks, pauses, detachment and this “don’t write first” 😅 Maybe being sincere is no longer a trend?

But I don’t want to learn to be “a little cold” so as not to be too “convenient”. I don’t want to wait three hours to answer a message. And I don’t want to explain that I like to hear “I'm here”, even if you don’t do anything. I have enough.

I’m not complicated. I just want something warm. Real. Without filters. With the smell of morning coffee, someone else’s T-shirt and conversations that lead nowhere, but warm 🧡

Sometimes it seems that this is almost a rarity. But maybe I’m not the only one?

And how are you? Do you feel it too? Or have you already learned to “play by the rules”?

Ira