I have asked myself this question more than once. Especially when the heart is already becoming attached, when someone important appears, but is hundreds, and sometimes thousands of kilometers away. And the most important thing begins - doubts. Will feelings withstand this reality? Is it possible to build something strong without being able to hug, look into the eyes, feel the touch of a hand?

My answer is possible, but not easy. And here are a few things that I understood:

Without trust, nothing will happen. Distance does not tolerate doubts and jealousy. If you do not trust the person you are talking to through the screen, then every minute of silence becomes torment. And when there is trust - even silence can be calm.

Words weigh more. In such relationships, everything is built on words. But words must be sincere. Not pretentious, not theatrical, but real. And if a person finds a way to remind you every day that they are there, it warms you more than physical presence.

Reality should be a priority. Love in messages is good, but without real meetings, everything remains a dream. Plans to see each other, knowing that it is not forever, are mandatory. Otherwise, everything turns into a beautiful but painful illusion.

Not every girl will stand it - and that's normal. We are all different. Someone needs presence, physicality, constant contact. This is not weakness, but honesty. If you know that you will not be able to be happy in a relationship only through video communication - it is better to admit it right away.

Distance is a test, not a punishment. If both want to be together, then you can get through it. And yes, it will be difficult. It will be sad. But it will also be touching. Because every meeting is like a small miracle. And if you are really meant for each other - even the distance will confirm this.

Do I prefer real relationships? Yes. Because I want to see eyes, hold hands, have breakfast together. But if there are only kilometers between me and someone special right now, then I'm ready to fight. But only if it's mutual.

Because love is not only about closeness, it's about a choice. Daily. And even at a distance it can be made - sincerely, with respect and with hope for a common "tomorrow"