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Love without words: how silence becomes the language of proximity
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We are used to thinking that love is a dialogue. That a real connection between people is possible only through sincere communication, open conversations and accurate formulations. This is really important. But there is another side - silent. Thin, slipping, almost invisible. Where you can just be near - and this is enough. Where you do not need to explain why you are tired, why anxious or want to stay in silence.

In such moments, silence does not become a pause, not a gap between the replicas, but an independent language. It requires special trust. After all, to be silent next to someone-and not to feel lonely-this is a luxury. This means that next to you is a person who does not need to play, prove, pretend to be. This means that he feels you - even without words.

Silence can be fragile and frightening if alienation settled in it. But if it is saturated with attention, presence, subtle empathy - this becomes the space of this connection. It happens that in such moments the real "we" is born. Not ostentatious, not photographed for social networks, but the present is almost intimate.

Often we are afraid of silence. It seems that we need to say, fill in pauses, explain. But proximity does not always need verbalization. Sometimes love is just a hand on your shoulder. Just a look. Just a joint silence under the blanket, when the window is night, and the whole world seems to freeze.

Understanding without words is a sign of mature connection. It grows not on the basis of constant analysis, but based on feeling. When silence is not because of alienation, but because of complete acceptance. When a person nearby is not afraid of your silence and does not require explanation. And just remains.

And it is in this quiet depth that we sometimes feel the strongest intimacy. Where words are no longer needed.

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