When I was 30, I was constantly waiting to be asked. They would ask what I wanted, where to have dinner, how I felt. Now I have the courage to say it all myself.🙏

Then I just politely and cautiously watched from the side, afraid to make the first move. It seemed to me that I still had so much time for the right person to find himself.🤷‍♀️

Then I could only guess what a man needed? What is he thinking about? Now I not only ask directly, but also say what I want myself. Especially when it comes to more private matters.. (Even if these are the same things, both in life and in "private")😏

I don't need my appearance to be praised to feel beautiful, I know that myself. Now for me these compliments are a sign that the person likes me.

With age comes the awareness of your own self, unique. And comes the understanding that no matter who is around, the most important thing is to value yourself. Because you will be alone with your thoughts clearly longer, and it is better to love it))😆

So what, is it better to hide your spark or show it to the whole world?
Doesn't the prospect of being able and necessary to say "yes" or "more" scare you?
And most importantly... Do you already know how to love yourself, or do you still have to learn this?🫡

With age comes not only wrinkles, but also confidence. Understanding.💞

Svetlana🌹✨