It seems that this simple word has some kind of magic that many are deprived of. When a person takes responsibility for his words and actions, without any tricky explanations and antics, it really touches me. Because there is so much hypocrisy and verbal ballet around that sometimes you don't believe that someone can be so open and honest.

I think this is a direct indicator of maturity and inner strength. Not a theory, not a philosophy, but just go and apologize if you are wrong. Not because it is necessary, but because it is right. And even if it is not always easy, the one who can do it is even cooler.

I guess I am tired of the eternal games where apologies turn into words-interference. Where instead of an honest "sorry" something like "well, I didn't mean to", "you misunderstood" and all this red tape begins. This is not about respect, it is just a way to avoid responsibility. And it is infuriating.

So I think - how much would it touch me if a man appeared in my life who could simply say "sorry" without unnecessary words? Without this eternal desire to justify himself and seem better than he really is. Just honestly.

I guess I can't even explain exactly why this is so. It just seems so rare and valuable. Maybe because there is no weakness in this word, on the contrary - there is courage. The courage to be yourself, the courage to be simple and real.

And you know, sometimes I am surprised why there are so few such men. What prevents you from simply admitting your mistake? Maybe the fear of losing face? Or pride? Or has no one taught you this?

I don’t idealize those who can do this, but I admit that for me this is a big plus. Because there is so much honesty and respect behind this simple word.

In general, if the world were full of such “sorry” without explanations and justifications, it would definitely be easier and kinder. And relationships would be simpler and warmer. And I would probably become a little calmer and more confident, knowing that there is such a person nearby who can be honest even in small things.

That’s my thought today. What do you think — can “sorry” really be the most powerful word? And why is it sometimes so difficult to just say it?

I’m waiting for your thoughts 😊

Ira