And it seems like I want to admire this strength, but it turns out that for me it's like a beautiful background without content. Well, yes, his arms are strong, but if he doesn't pick up a joke, doesn't support my ridiculous laughter at something stupid - then what's the point?

And I also noticed a funny habit in myself: when I see such serious musclemen, I want to test them. Like, say something funny, smile, show that there's more to it than just protein and a sleep schedule. And this test almost always fails 😅. They look so sternly, as if I suggested disrupting a workout for ice cream.

Sometimes I think that a sense of humor is a superpower. It is stronger than abs and more important than sculpted shoulders. A funny guy can be anyone: tall, short, athletic, thin, with normal arms. The main thing is that it is easy to be with him. And life with him is also easy. And muscles... well, what about muscles? They can be a bonus, but certainly not the main thing.

So it turns out that for me, a man without laughter and lightness is like a gym without music. Everything seems to work, but the atmosphere is dead. And you know, the strangest thing is that sometimes it seems that no one has told such serious guys that the world is not always a competition. You can relax, smile stupidly and not lose your "status" from it.

I wonder if there are those who combine both strength and lightness? So that they can both pick me up (well, that's nice, what can you do 😏), and then immediately make me laugh until I cry. If so, where are they? Or am I looking for something wrong 🤔?

Ira