I have seen how people hide behind rudeness when they are afraid of being understood. I have done it myself. It is easier to prick first than to admit that you are expecting warmth. But then you notice: the truly strong are those who can gently tell the truth without devaluing. Who can hug without reason. Who is not afraid to show softness where everyone has put on a mask.

Tenderness requires presence. Attention. And subtle strength. Because being tender in response to kindness is simple. But to remain warm when you are hurt is almost an art.

I am still learning. It does not always work. Sometimes I react harshly. Sometimes I close myself off. But I don't see tenderness as weakness. I see it as a way to remind myself and others that you don't have to be tough to be heard.

And yes, it's a risk. But I think it's worth it.