Sometimes you want to say "I love you" because it is customary, because it is convenient. But inside there is emptiness, or doubt. And it turns out that the words do not match what you really feel. 😔
I tried for a long time to understand why people do this - why it is easier to say a beautiful phrase than to admit the truth. Maybe because the truth is too inconvenient, too bitter or frightening? Or maybe they are simply afraid of being rejected, misunderstood. But it turns out that in this little deception something important is lost - sincerity. And without it, how can you build real relationships? How can you truly love if you don’t even want to admit your feelings to yourself? 💭
I always thought that love is when you don’t need to pretend, when you can be yourself without fear and lies. But the world around us is different - so many masks, so many rules, that sometimes you start to doubt whether this true love even exists? Or is it just a beautiful myth that everyone is used to living by? But deep down, you want to believe that it doesn't. That somewhere there is honesty and openness.✨
This is probably the hardest thing - to be honest with yourself and others. Because sometimes the truth hurts more than a lie, and a lie seems like salvation. But is it salvation? Lying about your feelings is not just a small sin, it's like chopping off the branch you're sitting on. You can just stop and look at yourself honestly, even if it's scary. I think this is the first step to true happiness. ❤️
I often think how important it is not to lose yourself in these games and masks. Not to turn into someone you are not to please someone or to avoid loneliness. To be honest means to be free, and freedom is something that is worth a lot. Even if sometimes it is hard and lonely. What do you think? Is it possible to remain honest in a world where it seems easier for everyone to pretend? 🤔
In the end, the truth will always find a way, even if you are afraid of it. And it is better to live with an honest heart than with a smile on your face that hides the emptiness inside. Perhaps this is one of the biggest tasks - to learn to love not with words, but with real feelings. And maybe this is where the real miracle lies. ✨💫
Masha