After all, if you think about it, the eye clings to the external, to the picture, to the shape and color. And the ears - to the meaning, to the words, to the mood. But is it possible to separate all this so sharply? Here I am alone - and sometimes it seems that I love more not what I see, but what I hear and feel between the lines. Sometimes the look can be cold or empty, and the voice - on the contrary, warming and alive. And vice versa, it happens that someone is very attractive on the outside, but the words are empty and meaningless, and you immediately want to leave.

Beauty, probably, is not only in what is on the surface. It is more like a mood, how a person lives, how he speaks, how he reacts to the world around him. And often it doesn't depend on appearance at all. It may sound trite, but it seems to me that it is the inner, what is not always immediately noticeable, that holds interest and makes you come back to a person again and again.

Of course, the eye is the first filter. It decides whether it is worth getting closer at all. But as soon as you start listening and understanding, this "cover" becomes much more than just a picture. It acquires meaning, depth, emotions. It is as if you see something for the first time that seems ordinary, and then you understand that there is something special there.

Sometimes it seems that there is so much falsehood and masks in the world that you just want honesty. Honesty in words, looks, actions. Because no external beauty can hide emptiness or insincerity. But real emotions, sincere laughter, warm words - that's what remains in the memory, that's what you want to keep.

Maybe that's why I am often surprised when I hear that men love only with their eyes. It seems to me that they love those who know how to be real, who do not hide their thoughts and feelings, who do not try to play a role. After all, these are the people who attract, even if at first glance it seems that there is nothing special.

And what do you think - what is more important to you: the first look or the first words? What makes you stop and pay attention? For me, sometimes it is enough to just hear sincere laughter or feel the warmth in the voice to understand - it is worth lingering here.

In general, beauty is not just a facade. It is also what sounds and feels. And this thought makes you believe that real meetings are not only about the eyes, but also about the ears and the heart. 💖

Val