Have you ever noticed how some men proudly say: “I’m simple”? 😊 It should sound like a virtue — like, no extra hassle, honest, open. But in reality 😬 it often turns into a convenient excuse, behind which hides… laziness. 💤
“I’m simple” often means: I won’t choose a restaurant 🍽, give flowers for no reason 🌹 or remember what kind of coffee you like ☕. Not because I don’t want to, but because I’m used to simplifying everything to a minimum. Like, this will do.
But you know, in a relationship, “this will do” doesn’t work 💔. A woman sees not simplicity, but indifference. Simplicity is when there is no show, but with attention. And when there is not even the slightest attempt to do something nice, this is no longer simplicity, this is negligence. The real value of a man is not that he is “simple”, but that he knows how to try - even in small things. ✨ And let it be without unnecessary pathos, but with soul ❤️. Because simplicity without effort is just emptiness.