When a man asks a woman out on a date 💃, he gets a chance to show who he really is. It's not about a suit 👔, not about a bouquet 💐, and not even about a restaurant 🍷 it's about the ability to take control of the situation 💪 and make her feel: "You were waiting for me✨"
A man without a plan is an immediate signal 🚫. He came, sat down opposite and said the eternal: "Well... where are we going?" and that's it, interest dropped below zero ❄️. This means that he didn't spend a minute thinking about what she might like. He didn't want to surprise, inspire, or at least make this evening memorable.
A plan is not about money 💵. It's about attention and initiative. You can have a picnic in the park, a walk along the embankment, tea in a small cozy place - and it will be better than any expensive restaurant, if there is thought and care in it ❤️. A woman appreciates when a man takes responsibility for the atmosphere, for emotions, for making her want to meet him again.
When there is no plan, she feels like an accidental guest in his life. He just filled empty time, and did not create something special for her. And then this date becomes the first and last. A man without a plan is like a book without a plot 📖: you can open it, but you will not want to read it to the end.
Natalia💋