When a man says, “I’m complicated” 🙄, I already understand that it’s not about mystery. It’s not about the depth of his character 💭, not about “a subtle mental organization” 🎭. It’s about the fact that it’s easier for him to hide behind this word than to admit: he doesn’t want to work on himself 🛑
“Complexity” too often turns out to be a convenient label 🏷, behind which laziness 🛋, infantilism and the habit of living on autopilot 🚗 are hidden. Instead of understanding himself, changing habits, admitting mistakes and building relationships ❤️, he simply says, “I’m complicated” — and relieves himself of responsibility.
Do you know what this really means? This means: “Don’t expect me to grow, change, and look for solutions. I’ve already found an excuse for myself.” And that’s it. Stop the game.
A real man 💪 is not afraid to be inconvenient, controversial, emotional — but he always moves forward, even if it’s difficult. Because strength is not “being difficult,” but being able to sort out your inner chaos and become better.
And those who hide behind the phrase “I’m difficult” are simply saving their energy. On themselves. On relationships. On life. And yes, this is no longer difficulty. This is banal laziness. 🚀🔥
Tanya😍