Not because someone did something bad or offended you, but simply because nothing is moving. This is the worst thing in a relationship - not quarrels, not betrayals, but a complete lull. When everything becomes the same, predictable, and there is no desire to wait, to discover something new, to laugh heartily or even just to argue. So I think, maybe the most important thing for me is for a relationship not to turn into a routine? So that between two people there is not just a connection, but life. This is the very life with bright moments, even if they are small and simple. When you can share thoughts without fear of being misunderstood, when you can just be yourself and not hide your feelings. Because boredom kills everything, like water kills fire - without fire, heat will not warm, and without interest ... why hold on then?

You don't want to be with someone out of habit, for safety, or just to not be alone. You want to feel. You want to have a person with whom you can laugh until you cry and discuss the craziest thoughts, and not just make plans for tomorrow. It seems to me that when there is no real interest in a relationship, when everything becomes ordinary, everything starts to fall apart inside, even if nothing changes outwardly. And sometimes I ask myself - how long are we ready to endure this boredom? Because then it is difficult to understand what exactly died first - love or the desire to be together.

I think I like the idea that a relationship is not just about being close, but about feeling that you are alive. So that every day is a little new, so that your eyes sparkle, even if it is just because of a funny story or an unexpected look. That's how you want to meet someone with whom it will be easy and fun, who will not let love turn into a gray routine. What do you think is stronger - habit or real emotions? 😌🔥

Natili