I'm tired of illusions and expectations that only confuse. Adults - they are not always perfect, not always attentive and certainly not always ready to be with someone for real. And this is normal. It seems to me that we demand too much, forgetting that relationships are not magic, but hard work, sometimes even a war for your boundaries. ⚔️

Sometimes I catch myself thinking: why is all this necessary? Why do we invest so much emotion in someone who can just pass by without looking back? Maybe it's easier to focus on yourself, on your goals and interests? 🤷‍♀️ After all, in the end, it is we ourselves who are the most important person in our lives, and no one is obliged to fill our voids.

I know that real relationships are not only beautiful moments, but also a lot of work, patience and, most importantly, honesty with yourself.

Iria