All grooms and brides before the marriage sincerely believe that their life together won’t be like the others’ ones and they’ll be happy forever. Unfortunately it doesn’t always happen like that and often ends up with a divorce. So why are we never taught how to build up a family relationship to avoid these awful consequences? Why do we forget immediately after the marriage that family is something that needs to be constantly worked out? We need to work on relationship, be attentive and take care of each other.

A man thinks that once he conquered his wife once then it was forever and stops working on relationship in any way. A woman in her turn starts picking at him which men hate more than anything else. Why don’t we say words of love to each other all the time? Why do we stop surprising our partners? Why don’t we bring flowers for no reason at all without some special occasion? That’s why a marriage becomes a routine.

Here are a few advices for those who want their marriage to be strong and happy:



- Once you tie yourself with a marriage you should take the responsibility of caring for your partner’s well being. His needs and likes should be to the same extent important as your own ones. Let it be “us” rather than “me”.

- Be ready to sacrifice. In a family you’ll always have to sacrifice something: freedom, goals, career e t.c. You have to learn to give up something for good because the family is one of the most important things in everyone’s life.

- You’ve got to always cheer up and support each other in reaching certain goals thus showing your partner that you believe in him. This will only make your family ties stronger whilst anger, rage, insults and irritation are the worst enemies of the marriage.

- Never pick at your husband. It only shows your disrespect and leads you nowhere. Only respect, trust, care and love can make your marriage really happy.



And what do think are the most important points in building up a happy relationship in a marriage?



Regards

Masha