Being feminine is, rather, being able to feel. Not putting on the right dress and not repeating beautiful phrases from films, but simply allowing yourself to be soft, free and real. I noticed that this state comes when you stop rushing and start treating yourself with care. For example, when you wake up a couple of minutes earlier in the morning not because of business, but to calmly pour your favorite tea, open the window and do nothing for a few minutes - just listen to the city waking up.

Femininity comes in small things. In the way you put your favorite scent on your wrists - not because you are going to a meeting, but just like that, for yourself. In the way you light a candle in the evening and turn on quiet music, without making a special event out of it. This is not a "script", it is an internal comfort that others then feel.

Over time, I realized that this state has nothing to do with the desire to please. Sometimes, it’s even the opposite — when you stop thinking about how you look and what people will say, real confidence appears. Femininity is not about proving. It’s about being. Sometimes — very quietly.

And it appears at unexpected times. Maybe — when you’re just walking down the street without headphones, because you want to hear the leaves rustling. Maybe — when you suddenly refuse something that doesn’t suit you, even if it looks strange. It’s like an internal filter: you simply choose what truly resonates with you, and in these moments, a soft, real strength appears.