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I recently thought 🤔 — why am i drawn to those who are older or seem more “mature”?
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I have always been attracted to people who have their own inner rhythm, who do not chase impressions, who can listen and hear at the same time.

Maturity is a strange word. It does not mean “you have more experience”, it means “you know how to behave”. A man or woman can be five years older, but behave like a teenager. And vice versa: someone younger, but seems like the entire universe. 🌌

Sometimes I catch myself thinking that for me it’s even sexy 😏. Not about the body, not about appearance. About the ability to be yourself, about the absence of fears, about the ability to laugh and be sad without unnecessary drama. About the fact that you can just sit next to and be silent, and it’s not awkward.

I think maturity is attractive because it promises security - not the boring, familiar kind, but the real kind, when you understand that there is a person next to you who knows who you are and respects who you are. This is rare, and I value it incredibly much. 💫

Sometimes I want to argue with this feeling, laugh at it, but then I understand: I just choose energy, not years. And this feeling is like a quiet magic that pulls and does not let go. 🌿

Iria

 

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