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Where is the line between freedom and proximity in relations?
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And it is the ability to find the right balance between these two components that makes the union harmonious and strong.

Many people mistakenly believe that proximity in relationships means a complete merger - when a couple has no secrets, personal boundaries and disagreements. But in reality, excessive “dissolution” in each other often leads to fatigue, loss of individuality and even conflicts. It is important to remember: love should not deprive of freedom, and freedom should not destroy intimacy.

The line passes where each partner feels respect for his personal borders and desires. If one has a need to be alone, engage in your hobby or meet friends, this is not a threat of relationships, but a natural part of life. Conversely, joint traditions, trusting conversations and emotional support strengthen intimacy, making a couple as a single whole.

A sign of a healthy union is the ability to talk to each other honestly and openly: discuss expectations, desires and fears. When partners are able to listen and accept each other, freedom does not turn into alienation, and intimacy does not become addiction.

Thus, the line between freedom and intimacy is the ability to love, remaining yourself. This is a willingness to be near, but at the same time respect the personal space. And the sooner the couple learn to keep this balance, the stronger and happier their relationship.

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