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Why are the ideal couples really not so perfect?
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In real life, there are no couples who never argue, do not face difficulties or do not experience crises. On the contrary, it is the ability to pass through these moments that makes the union strong. Harmony is born not from the lack of conflicts, but from the ability to negotiate, hear each other and accept imperfection.

Ideal is often a myth created by society itself. Social networks form a picture where everything looks flawless. But there are no sleepless nights, fatigue, irritation or personal doubts. Outside it is a glossy picture, and inside - the same ordinary human stories, where there is both joy and tears.

The danger of the desire for “ideal relationships” is that an illusion arises: if we are not so smooth, then something is wrong. People begin to compare themselves with fictional images and are disappointed, although they actually go through quite natural stages. It is important to remember: the conflict does not make a couple worse, and the lack of a complete coincidence of interests does not destroy intimacy.

The real value of the union is not to be afraid of imperfections. Be open in vulnerability, recognize mistakes, forgive and move on. This is a reality that makes the relationship alive. Where there is an opportunity to be yourself, where they accept with disadvantages and weaknesses, and a real feeling of happiness is born.

So ideal couples are not those who always have everything smoothly. And those who can cope with difficulties remaining nearby. Beautiful pictures can inspire, but real happiness is not built in the frame, but in reality - with its difficulties, compromises and warmth, which cannot be faked.

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