When I pick up the tab at a restaurant or pay for a trip, I don't do it to prove something to someone. I do it because I can, and because I want to see how the person reacts. This is not a test of generosity or masculinity, but of openness, of the ability to be with a person who sees a woman as a partner, and not as a "passive half" 😏.
Sometimes I wish men understood: when a woman pays, it is not humiliation or a rejection of traditions. It is freedom, it is a signal that we live in the present, where roles should not be fixed by patriarchy. It is a way to show trust, respect and a willingness to be equal in everything 💎.
Of course, reactions vary. Some smile, some get embarrassed, some get irritated. But that's not what's important to me. What's important is that I decide when and how to pay, and that it's my choice. And you know what? Sometimes it's at moments like these that I see real maturity and confidence in men — when they don't cling to old ideas, but accept it as part of the modern world 🌟.
So yes, I think: when a woman pays for a man, it's not just normal, it can be wonderful. It's a sign of respect, equality, and strength. What do you think: is it weird or is it a new dimension of relationships? 💭
Maru