What kind of man to choose? Why do women often choose scoundrels? Is a woman able to love her tormentor? Why do those, who love us, groom, cherish and pamper us, cause only pity? Why so-called brutal men are those, who behave like animals: bring us to tears, scoff, are so welcome for us? Why do we always want something more than just love and respect? And why do we love men, who make us suffer?
Physiologists say that it is women's nature: we always look for and choose alpha males - unpredictable, strong and brutal. Because even the most ingenious and confident women want to obey a stronger man, someone who will solve all problems for them and give orders how to act. Women like rough male power.
Men who are of the beta-males type, are weak, polite, intelligent and insecure, but they lose just in man's power and thus lose a significant share of their attractiveness for us.
Women choose and love scoundrels also because they want extreme relations. Rough "lovemaking", strength and unpredictability excite them more than caress and tenderness. A woman wants to feel like an impregnable fortress, which is taken by brute force, it is very exciting.
Another reason why we love scoundrels is an irresistible desire to please him, to become "mommy" for him. My mother will not leave her son for anything, no matter how harmful or bad he is. Such women can endure everything, and if in the end the man on his knees begs for forgiveness, gives gifts and flowers, then the woman is happy.
How does this love go away?
The craving for scoundrels forever leaves the woman with a stupid youth, inexperience and all the major complexes. Love for the "unbridled animal" is replaced by the desire to create a family and a home. And the dream of a kind, gentle and affectionate husband comes. It is wiser to choose an adequate and predictable man than to "enjoy" the love of a male bastard. Because love mixed with pain and humiliation is not love at all. What do you think? I will be happy to know your opinion.
Marina