Men like to hide behind this phrase, like a shield. “I’m not a pessimist, I’m just a realist” 😏In reality, it often sounds like: “I don’t want to take risks, I don’t want to try new things, I don’t want to play” 🤷. Convenient, right? No responsibility, no emotions, no bright gestures.
Realism in a man’s performance often comes down to dullness 😐 He sits in the corner and watches while others live. Where he can add a spark, he adds dry statistics 📊. Where he wants to see courage, he pulls out the boring: “be a realist”.
Women quickly get bored with such “realists” 🙃A man who, instead of drive, gives out the moral “that’s how life works” turns the relationship into a gray office corridor. The real interest is not in saying “everything is complicated”, but in taking and doing 💥
Brightness always defeats dullness 🌈. Even a risk, even a mistake is better than endless realism. Because behind “I am a realist” most often hides fear. Fear of being funny. Fear of not being the one. Fear of standing out. And where fear lives, there is no place for passion ❤️‍🔥
Men who hide behind this word do not notice how they become more boring than weather forecasts 🌧. But women want fire, courage and lively energy. “Realist” is not a characteristic. It is an excuse for boredom.
Do you want to be real? Be alive. Be risky. Be bright. But, for the sake of everything masculine, stop hiding behind the word “realist” 😎