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Is jealousy a sweet feeling or too dangerous for a relationship?💖🌟
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I think jealousy is like fire. 🔥
If used skillfully, it warms, creates coziness, light, and comfort.

But if allowed to run wild, it consumes everything around it, leaving only the charred remains of trust and understanding.

For me, jealousy isn't so much a feeling of possessiveness as it is a signal of how important the person is to me.
Sometimes I ask myself, "Why do I feel this way? Is it because I'm afraid of losing them, or because I don't trust myself?"

And then comes the understanding: true love and trust must be stronger than any jealousy.

It's interesting to observe how jealousy manifests itself in different people. Some remain resentfully silent, others seek proof and confirmation.
And all these reactions are simply a reflection of their inner world, fears, and expectations.
It's important for me to learn to distinguish between a light, almost playful feeling of jealousy and one that threatens to destroy a relationship.

Sometimes I think a little jealousy is like spice in a dish: it adds spice, liveliness, a feeling of being appreciated and wanted to a relationship.

But if you overdo it... mmm, it's not tasty anymore, it's bitter.

I believe that a mature person can experience jealousy without letting it control them, but rather turning it into motivation for even more attention and care.

What do you think?
Can jealousy be sweet and inspiring, or is it always a minefield for relationships?
I think the most interesting conversations about love are when we're honest about our fears and desires, when we can discuss complex feelings without judgment, with a slight smile and a playful sparkle in our eyes.

You agree, right? 😊

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