We all love mom, no matter what she does. Mom was always there for us or at least most of us. Yes there are some moms who did not want to be a mom and so neglected her children but for most of us she was the one who loved and cared for us. Mom was the one who made sure we all had what we needed, not always what we wanted. Just basic economics really. Dad worked hard and mom worked even harder to raise us.
So, in my mind, most men look for that strength in a woman. He looks for a woman who is into family, who is into being a mom for her children and, most of all, for her husband. Most women want to find that one man who will always be beside her and support her in all that life brings them. Men want that in a woman and in a relationship. I don't think that a man looks for a woman who looks like mom but one that has the qualities of his mother.
As a point to this growing up in small town Newfoundland, the first girl I was in love with had the same name as my mother. Now we never did get together because she was popular and I wasn't but it didn't stop me from wanting to be with her.
I came to this site after foraging around a number of others and finding nothing. Now that doesn't mean this site has been easy but I do believe that Eastern European women are more like mother than women from many other places. They are portrayed as women who believe that marriage is scared and that it should be for life. They seem to care about relationships and understand that to build a strong, lasting one you need both parties to be on the same page and be willing to work together to keep love growing.
I know that every man and woman on this site has different views and that is good. We all have that right in our free world as we have it. Many countries allow for more freedoms than others especially here in North America. We all think we live in the best country in the world and we are free to think so. That is what is so great about freedom.
I loved my mom and still do very much even though she has long gone from this life. My mom gave life to 17 children over 17 years with 2 miscarriages in there as well. 11 of us lived and mom raised us all to be responsible adults. I want to find a wife here who will help me raise any children we have to be the same.
Age is something that doesn't bother me as much these days. Now that does not mean I am looking for a teen or young 20's woman but what I am looking for is a mature minded lady who is ready to be with one man for the rest of their lives together. Given my age that could be a year or it could be 40 because we never know what tomorrow brings. I don't really care what other people may say if they see me with a much younger woman as long as we are in love and happy with our lives. All I am looking for is honesty, loyalty, peace and happiness. I am looking for that one woman who will always love me and whom I can give my love in return.
I do believe I have found her here if only we could get past the language and internet issues. I hope that happens real soon.