What is the real reflection of woman's passion...? her body, eyes or the the way she behaves...

What attracts men?
How should woman look to attract men? sexy or tenderly shy?

I have always thought that the shier girl is the more passion she has...
Some women are very passionate but they prefer to hide it from people around, and sometimes you need to become a really close friend to this person to know how different she really is. These types of women look like grey mice, nobody notices them. Anyway there are also girls and women who do show their bodies, they wear sexy dresses, bright make-up and men think they are really red hot chilly peppers))) but it turns false when it comes to sex.
And nowadays women have become great actresses, they can show you whatever you want to see, they can be anyone you like...shy or sexy, tender or tough, obedient or dominant.
I often think that all our lives are theater plays, and people appear to be not who they really are. What do you prefer - a perfect person who plays roles, or a real one?