That's different from what I see everywhere else. So many people waiting for someone else to tell them what to do. Waiting for permission or approval or a sign that it's okay to take action.

I think I need to be like that too. Not in a stubborn way, but in a real way. A girl who can see what needs to be done—whether it's in her own life or around her—and she can do it without waiting. Without checking first.

The world doesn't need another girl who knows a lot of beautiful words. It needs girls with steady hands. 🛠️ Girls who can build things. Girls who understand that real strength is in the doing, not in the planning. And I think if I want that in my future, I have to become that myself first.

So maybe the work isn't to find a man with good hands. Maybe it's to develop my own. To understand how things work. To not be someone who waits for rescue or guidance, but someone who can handle what life requires. Wouldn't that make me someone worth knowing?