[1] What is the purpose of continually changing your profile "user name/ID"? If you can't remain committed to one profile user name/ID on this site, then why should any man believe that you could remain committed to something as serious as a real relationship?

[2] Why does everything in your minds have to be "either / or"? For example, I received this question from 1 lady: "Do you want to be loved or admired or respected"? Isn't it possible to achieve all 3? Why would you choose only one if you could have both or all if you were willing to give the effort to make it happen? Is it always better to take the easy way and settle for only one or better to set your sights higher and work to have it all?

Any and all answers/responses from the ladies would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance.