A man who knows what he wants is called ambitious. A woman who knows what she wants is called difficult. 💪

I know what I want. I want to build a home. I want to be with someone who respects me and works alongside me toward something real. I want children who know they matter. I want order and beauty and stability. I want to create something that lasts. And I'm not apologizing for any of that. 🏠

The interesting thing is that having clarity about what I want has made me less desperate, not more. Because I'm not grasping at any opportunity or person that comes along. I know what I'm looking for, so I can recognize it when it arrives. I also know what doesn't match, and I can walk away from it without second-guessing myself. 🚶

Women are often told they should be flexible, adaptable, ready to adjust their plans for someone else's. And yes, partnership requires compromise. But there's a difference between compromise and abandoning yourself. A real partnership is between two people who know who they are and what matters to them, and they find a way to build something together that honors both. 👑

So yes, I'm demanding. I'm clear about my values. I know what kind of home I want to create and what kind of woman I want to be. And that's not a problem—that's a strength. 🌟