It's not about not talking at all.
It's about being able to keep what's truly important inside.
Many guys these days spill everything at once: childhood traumas, a broken heart, dreams of a billion, resentments towards an ex, plans for the next 10 years...
And within an hour, you feel like a free psychologist with the "listen and admire" function.
But there are others.
They can keep the most important things to themselves for years.
Not because they're closed off, but because it's too precious to throw words around.
And when such a man one day, by chance, in the dark, almost in a whisper, tells you one single important thing...
It sounds like music.
As if you've gained access to something forbidden and very precious.
Silence around big topics isn't cold. It's respect for yourself and for you.
It's when he doesn't use you as a dumpster for his emotions.
And believe me, when such a man finally opens up, you remember every word forever 🌌
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