Man, these days almost everyone is trying to "seize the moment."
You get into the elevator... immediately "Hi, where are you from?" 🗣️
You're standing at the checkout... "What a line, huh?" 😅
You see a girl on the subway... you immediately try to start a conversation, because "what if it's fate?" 🚇💨
And 90% of the time, it looks like... trying to seize the opportunity at any cost.
Now imagine the opposite:
You get into the same elevator, stand next to her, silently looking at the numbers on the floors.
Or you're standing in line, calmly waiting your turn, not bothering to comment on the weather/prices/long lines. You simply exist nearby... without pressure, without fuss, without "I have to say something or I'll miss my chance" 😌
And this calm "don't push" works like a magnet 🧲
Because we sense:
This man doesn't need every chance encounter to be an "opportunity."
He's not afraid of silence with a stranger.
He's not afraid of being overlooked.
He doesn't try to prove his coolness or interestingness in the first 10 seconds.
He's just... fine.
And this calm is palpable 🌬️
When you do this... we start thinking about you ourselves.
"Why didn't he say anything? Is he shy? No, he's too calm for that."
"Maybe he's just confident that if it needs to, everything will happen on its own?"
"Damn, is he really that relaxed in real life?" 🤔✨
And here's where the fun begins:
Then we can speak first.
Because with such a man, there's no feeling of "I need to answer urgently, otherwise I'll offend you."
No pressure. No waiting. Just space.
Guys like this are... almost an endangered species these days 🦋
Everyone around you is rushing, filling the silence, afraid of "losing the moment."
And you... are the ones who know how to wait, not rush, and not seize on every glance.
This looks like absolute inner strength 💪🖤
So guys... take your time.
Don't fill every second with words.
Don't turn the elevator and the checkout counter into a battleground for attention.
Just be calm around you.
We'll notice. And we'll remember.
And maybe that's why we'll approach you ourselves. Because with a man like that, you can finally just breathe and not answer 😌🔥
Kate🙃