People love to say "Catholic guilt" like it's some terrible burden we carry around, making us miserable and repressed. But that's such a misunderstanding of what conscience actually is! Having a moral compass isn't the same as being guilt-ridden. Knowing right from wrong isn't psychological damage - it's clarity.
What I experience isn't crippling shame about being human. It's awareness. It's that little voice that says "hey, you could do better here" or "that wasn't your best self" or "you should apologize for that." And honestly? I'm grateful for it! Imagine going through life never questioning your behavior, never feeling called to grow, never experiencing that pull toward being better. 💫
The Sacrament of Reconciliation isn't about wallowing in how terrible you are. It's about acknowledging mistakes, receiving forgiveness, and actually moving forward lighter than before. It's freedom, not imprisonment! I leave confession feeling cleansed, not crushed.
Yes, I examine my conscience. Yes, I think about my choices and their impact. Yes, I feel genuine remorse when I hurt others or fall short of my values. But this isn't unhealthy guilt - it's healthy accountability! It's what keeps me striving to align my actions with my beliefs. 📿
The alternative is either denying you ever do anything wrong (delusion) or not caring when you do (apathy). Neither of those sounds better than having an active, functioning conscience that helps you become who God calls you to be.
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